When I first came into contact with social software, it was a junior high school. At that time, having a QQ was a rare thing.
Although I am a girl, I have an unparalleled desire for computers and electronic products. Although my family always thinks that using electronic products is definitely not conducive to my study, but I can't help my hard work. In short, I have my own mobile phone and computer.
At the beginning, just logging on to QQ satisfied a huge thirst for knowledge. I never thought that one software could establish contact with so many people. I remember that the popular mobile phones at that time were LG and Samsung. In short, I met many, many people in small mobile phones.
I have long known that I am very good at chatting with words, not to mention that most people who log on to social software to talk to the outside world have a similar mood as me. Because of loneliness, they are eager to establish contact with countless people. Although such exchanges are not really helpful, it may even take time to maintain some relationships. And most of the time the chatter is meaningless.
——I keep repeating what I said to many people, after all, most people's problems are actually similar. Ask for your specific information, ask about your hobbies, ask if you have eaten, ask you to say good morning and evening. But maybe there are so many greetings, even if
the same sentence and countless people are talking, I feel that I am being followed, and too many news reminders make me feel that I am not alone.
But it is precisely because of the convenience of social software that more and more platforms accelerate everyone's connection. If you are attracted to this person today, you may be attracted to another person tomorrow. Besides, everyone tends to show their good side online, so more people can be reached. And because the attention is constantly being distracted by other people, everyone is sensitive. Originally, a person gradually became cold to you after a second. This change is not impossible to feel.
Keep chatting with everyone, the enthusiasm will always be exhausted one day. The negative effect of this is that once you stop this \"lively\" social relationship and only chat with one person, if the other person cannot replace so many people, you will soon fall into a huge lack and dissatisfaction. Originally you had countless concerns, although they were \"virtual\cannot make up for the huge void.
In fact, it is not entirely for these attention, but also the freshness from newcomers. With the frequent appearance of social software, there are more and more ways to play. Of course, the essence remains the same. It is still one person to face countless people, but in fact, the
opposite may be in the same situation. So far, I will no longer be overbearing and hope to be the only one.
But even if it seems to be \"concerned\" by countless people, loneliness is always lingering. Repeatedly getting to know new people still maintains the old people, but it does not relieve the emptiness and loneliness in my heart. Because across the social network, the most practical advantage is that you can imagine that the other party can feel your feelings. If the other party's response to you happens to be what you hoped, good feelings will appear like this. But in fact, this kind of goodwill is very fragile. Chatting on the Internet for thousands of days is not as realistic as the reality.
More and more people are investing in virtual networks to find their \"confidant\
Although the essence is still hope to gain more people's recognition. But when a person communicates with countless individuals, it is impossible to ensure that what is shown to everyone is their own, not to mention that across the Internet, this oneself needs to put a big question mark. So I often feel that those people who can establish some relationship with me both online and offline are also fate.
For some people who cannot gain any attention in reality, social software can be regarded as software to establish some \"self-confidence\" for them, which is also the advantage of social
software. God is inherently unfair, and many people are easily ignored. But social software can make this person less easily ignored.
However, even today, even in social software, the strong are stronger and the weak are weaker. God has always been fair. Lonely people will not get out of loneliness because of social software, and maybe they will fall into the abyss because of social software.
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